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Pencil Me In: Waneta’s Dance Card

Published: August 7, 2019

Have you ever “penciled someone in” for coffee, or said “my dance card is full” when you're busy?

Both sayings refer back to the historic dance cards used at formal dances in the 19th and early 20th centuries.

dance card decorated with daffodils and a spade
dance card decorated with a drawing of a bellboy carrying a flower box

These beautifully decorated dance cards, from Waneta Blue’s time at the University of Virginia during the 1920s, were not only a practical way to keep track of social engagements and dance partners, but also a small keepsake from formal dances and parties.

Dance cards became popular at balls and social events in Europe and the United States during the 1800s and remained common at dances planned for students until the 1940s.

At a dance, young men wrote their names just once in the card of each of the young women with whom they wanted to dance. Dance cards often looked like a booklet with decorative cover, and included the order of dances, including the music and composers.

Card reading "You are player no. 10" and then instructions for where to sit and how to find your partner
Waneta Blue's dance card, with no names filled in

As you’ve probably noticed, it was completely up to the men to decide to put their names on a woman’s dance card, and to initiate the dancing. While Waneta Blue's card doesn’t reveal any of the names of her dance partners, her evening appears to have also included at least one table game with a randomly assigned partner.

One interesting note: judging by the records in our collection, Waneta Blue appears to have experimented at times with spelling her first name with an "i" instead of an "e." An example of this can be seen at the bottom of her dance card.

The items photographed here are from our Community Archives collection, Records of the Blue Family. The collection also includes greeting cards to members of the family, school records of the Blue sisters, and more materials from Waneta Blue’s years at the University of Virginia in the 1920’s.

To learn more, visit the Center for Local History on the first floor of the Central Library.

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August 7, 2019 by Web Editor Filed Under: Center for Local History, Throwback Thursday

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